Wednesday 30 March 2016

An Open letter to you, my sister

My Dear Sister,

Come to think of it, I am glad, I did not meet you, the day before you disappeared.

I would rather hold onto the other thousands of memories we had, I would smilingly accept the juice that your kids spat on my favorite abaya, I would lovingly remember my tiny girl running around happily with her MnM’s and asking me for it, if I didn’t get her any…. I would rather remember that, than having to understand what made you decide to take a leap of faith, over an issue, I still can’t wrap my head around.

This is plainly my opinion. I have known you for years. We were the kind of ‘cousins for life’ who could talk for hours on end, and would still have tonnes of stories left to share. What do I do now, when I feel like there are things that you need to know? How do you compensate my longing to chit chat over henna/ just chit chat over anything in general….

Sigh! I am not angry at anybody or anything. I am deeply upset at how easily the trust got broken. I am way too far in the trust circle if you ask me. Starting with your parents, sisters, friends, cousins- Oh Wait! - There I am, that’s not even far in the trust cycle. I guess you do have some reason due to which you never really expressed any thing.

Now, let me share my thoughts. I still like to believe that you were your old innocent self, who fell into a skillfully created web (which is totally understandable). The alternative would be, you taking that choice of leaving everything behind for a cause… a cause that doesn’t make any sense to me. How can anything be more important than the sense of peace your parents feel? How can you not have seen that it is not the destination, but the path that you take that is important? Why would you throw away the beautiful life that you build, for a faith which has been mutilated like never before (and you are more than educated enough to figure that out.)

I do not know what happened. I do not blame you either. Sometimes situations makes you take terrible decisions. To you, what I say might not make any sense, but I stand by it. Allow me to ask you this:
You, being one of the smartest among us, you being the one who knocked some sense into your sister- what drastic realization transformed your thoughts??? Who was, that powerful, to influence you???

To the other person who influenced you: Do you believe you were right in molding somebody in the wrong direction? What kind of ill feeling do you have towards the world that your sense of justification has been totally washed off?
I hope this letter reaches you somehow. I hope you try to understand what my masked language is speaking. I hope you are safe and happy wherever you are. I also hope your family has the strength to get through this enormous test.
To whoever that created this false web, this is what my advice is:
·         The God that you preach about, knows exactly what is going on.
·         The families that you flip, their wounds will hunt you till the end of time.
·         The wrongs that you do might just wipe out the good you may have done in between.

To you my dear sister, I say this:
Faith should be in one’s heart, not on your sleeve. If you were wronged, May God Almighty provide you with the strength, courage and conscience to deal with it. I love you, we all do, and we will pray for guidance, for the entire human race: to follow the right path, and stay away from the commercialization of it.

Some very precious people have been hurt. Some very lovely babies are being missed. There’s lot more that is left to communicate, but for the first time, I feel, that, my pen is not mightier than the shield you have on.

Loads of love and prayers,


Sunday 28 February 2016

Getaway- Jannah Burj Al Sarab- Amazingly Relaxing :)

Jannah Burj Al Sarab- True to to all they claim to be :)

Are you someone who loves to travel??? Yes? Good for you :D
Me? I lie somewhere in the middle of ‘love to travel’ and ‘lazy to travel’. My idea of a holiday is to be able to have fun, look whatever way you want to look like, try new cuisines( although I swear by Indian food ;)), have a relaxed and stretched day where your itinerary doesn’t overpower the sense of laziness you feel ;P, Oh ! and most important of all- with as minimum  travel as possible.
To make it a lot more obvious for you:

·         I would looove to go to Paris, if they provided some solution to reach there in max-4 hrs, 
·         Or if the airline is ready to pamper me with goodie bags, that will keep me busy... I’ld love to go anywhere in the world.

Ahhh my lovely imaginary bubble. Sigh! As you all have already guessed, humanity has yet to create such a super speed time machine for me to fly/crawl/swim in. And to add to my so called ‘ travel misery’, God Almighty gifted me with a soulmate, who is the other side of the coin- he would gladly sit at home and feel amazingly happy, with no qualms about putting on his shoes and going out for a drive :D
Well, it’s a pretty even mix there. Don’t get me wrong, we do love to go around town, go for movies etc etc, but as of now, with both of us working and being dead tired, we prefer a simple solution.
With this beeeeeg intro, let me introduce you, to one such recent favorite alternative of mine:

Jannah Burj Al Sarab...


The Building At Night

An amazing property in downtown AbuDhabi. They are a branch of Jannah hotels and Resorts, who have one of their Resorts at the Eastern Mangroves, AbuDhabi.
Me and my husband, like our privacy, and once in a year we love to escape to some good hotel/ apartment to rewind, switch off our phones and get some much needed, ‘US’ Time.
The first time we tried this(Since we don’t get enough time to go on a planned holiday…someday we will :P), was when I got an amazing deal from trivago.ae for an apartment. The experience was soo much Rejuvenating that we kept going back to trivago to see if we can bag some deals. And there came Jannah Burj AL Sarab- very very reasonably priced at AED 183 for a double bedroom.(It originally rents for waaaay more than that).
Lets get into the details shall we?
The Reception

Since we already live in AbuDhabi, it was pretty easy to find the place. The first thing I’ld like to mention, is their hospitality. The smiling faces at the door and reception, the Karim who brings us the warm towel and the welcome drink, all makes it a charming environment. The check-in formalities are the usual-ID Proof/ Passport. It will be different for people outside UAE, you can reach the hotel for details regarding that.
The very friendly Karim( guest assistant)

They will charge an additional 200 as a deposit (which they will return on check out)in case you do have hunger pangs and decide to use the room service/ the mini bar inside the room (oooooh the mini bar). Once you get your room keys, you can park in the underground parking and go upto your room.
For some very useful reason, they have a full on smart system managing all the electronics in the room: The lights, ventilation, and the likes. Instead of switches you’ll find a touch panel: for your lights and Cooling mechanism. The room is arranged so beautifully and spaciously, that you wonder why we didn’t use these design tips at home ;)
The main door(excuse the camera clarity)

When you enter the room, you have sliding wardrobes on your right, which also has a safe locker, if you have any valuables to keep. One amazing thing I found here is how they had customized the rooms based on the region. They had a musallah (prayer mat) and a Quran placed in the wardrobe as well. You could also find, 2 bathrobes, room slippers, sewing kit, an iron board and an iron box, all snugly and neatly fit in one part of the wardrobe. To your left, is the washroom, neat, and the toiletries properly set. Unlike other apartments, where they provide you with travel size soap, shower gel etc, here they had a creative mechanism, where it’s a whole squeeze bottle, the kind that we cannot remove: and it all smelled amazingggg. I think it was from the brand, ‘Naturals’. Some hint of grapefruit was hanging around in the lotion, shower gel, shampoo and the conditioner(I would have loved a travel size version of this oneL).
The Glass Shower(Yay!)
The toiletries, all properly set. Squeeky Clean.

The wash area-is glass covered, with two showers-one attached to the ceiling, other, removable and wall clad. A huge plus, is the hot water availability throughout the day (I am the kind that freezes when somebody switches on the AC, so this was a huge plus).
The bed, as all apartment beds, was cozy comfy, all white and had a regal touch to how it was arranged. The 6 pillows in itself makes the bed-so sleepable :D
This taken with amazing quality lens(downloaded from Google ;))

This taken from my cam which unfortunately doesnt give clarity at night. SIGH!


In addition to this, there is a work area, with a table and chair, next to it is the beeeeeg TV, and a dressing table. The windows were floor length, the curtains completely shutting out light by evening.
Coffee packets with milk, sweetener etc; and tea bags with 3-4 different flavours- All of which tasted amazing. We have this habit of exploring what all there is in the room. Since we had already tried opening all the drawers, we just let the one next to the work area, unexplored. I don’t remember exactly why I opened it, lo and behold: the mini bar opened its way J It had sensors in the mini bar, filled with different kinds of fizzy/ non fizzy drinks; chocolates, nuts, baked chips. The good thing is, it wasn’t priced that high as well. Reasonable- I told you so. They do charge an extra 16% on the items, but it will not make a huuuuge difference.
The Awesome Minibar

We didn’t order room service since we did know all the eateries nearby, and both of us love indian, so we opted for a hyderabadi restaurant …the food was yummm.
Just so that we didn’t forget that a swimming pool existed on the rooftop, we went to the top floor. It housed a gym, a cafĂ©(hookah included), a pool and a sauna-if I remember correctly.
The pool…the blue tiles making it look serene blue, dimly lit seating area and an open roof. This is exactly what swimming under the moon must feel like. Buut, it was closed for some reason, maybe there was a time limit. Any which ways, the comfortability level was very high at Jannah Burj Al Sarab.

To give you an overall rating:
  • ·         Check in-check out: Smooth: 4.5/5
  • ·         Hospitality: Amazing 5/5
  • ·         Cleanliness:4.5/5
  • ·         Sound free Area: Very Much
  • ·         Reasonable: Very(for the deal that I got)
  • ·         Recomment it?: For Sure.


You know how they provide a, ‘Rating Card’ for your stay. We had filled and left our mail id’s on it. Surprisingly, their relationship manager, emailed us back, thanking us for the stay :O : again-hospitality at its best, people.
Please note, this review is just a result of the smile they left on our face with their services, and is 100% my opinion. I was not paid to give this review by any means. (Although Ild love to stay with them again ;))

Check them out: http://www.jannah.ae/hotels.php?id=3
to get a clearer idea on what they offer.
Also do check out: trivago.ae if you can bag any deals, if you are the lazy one like me ;)

Loads of love to the team at Burj Al Sarab <3